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Best one of yours I’ve heard. I’m going to send it to all my future females when they go all crazy on me for what I choose to do with my life.
excatly what a load o shite lol
Really understanding this “Own your own feelings” when you’re feeling defensive, is THE biggest piece of advice of all.
@ai5H4 I am glad that we aren’t together anymore… He’s a real pain in the ass now. And even after more than 5 years he still can’t get himself over it and be friends… I’ve deleted him from facebook, msn, cellphone,…Everywhere. A guy that promises me on my bday last year to always be there for me, and offer his friendship as a gift for my bday back then and never made his promises real… That are the kind of people that I don’t need!
@soenami Well in that case he wanted you back, obviously (as he made it a big deal on whatever you have done) maybe he got hurt so that’s why he told you that he couldn’t trust you instead of saying that he still has feelings for you.. I’m not 100% sure but as you said “he made it a big deal” and he also said that you were emotionally cheating on him =/
@ai5H4 We weren’t even dating anymore… I do think that you are still allowed to talk/flirt/laugh with other people when you aren’t dating anymore?… Ok, if you are still together, that’s something else. I would even do that when I am dating someone…but when being single.. I don’t see the problem why he made such a big deal out of it.
Stupid girls being sluts and cheating then ask for forgiveness, but if its a guy oh the whole world ends and guys are all the same etc. (Blah, blah, blah) stupid women :
OR you can just move the fcuk on because you and I both know it ain’t gonna be the same. YOU.HAVE.MESSED.IT.UP.ALREADY!
…I was in the EXACT SAME SITUATION not long ago and as hard as it was, I knew it was better to just let him go. So I ended it with him just about 3 weeks ago cuz I knew deep down he won’t trust me again. And how much chemistry and good things were between him and I won’t be the same. IT FUCKIN SUCKS!! But I brought and thought to the best of me and decided to let go.For good
@soenami Well were you flirting with someone else besides him? coz if you did then I gotta agree with ur ex coz it is “emotionally cheating”
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Yay
i gave Chris a hug 
Don’t waste your life, I stayed in a marriage 15 years more than I should.
Now I have lost my looks, my youth and I don’t even want to try to love again.
the one we love is the one we fear the most
Great video and advise Chris. I really love the part where you talk about the victim becoming the victimizer. nicely said for your audience!! The crying wil eventually go away…Forgiveness is in actions..the hurtful words should dissappear. Plus, in life lessons are to be learned, being young, hopefully she will learn from that mistake and not do it again. Hard Life Lesson. And if it doesnt work out, it is okay to move on and meet someone new, perhaps even better.Life is too short to be unhappy
From that moment on, (dated him for another 1.5 year and kept thinking he would change and stop bringin up old stuff), but he didn’t, so after those 1.5 years, I broke up with him forgood. It was never the same in our relationship anyway. The ‘click’ was gone, there was no more connection like before, he didn’t trust me anymore (even though I DIDN’T do anything wrong at all, we weren’t even together anymore!) But he kept saying it was “emotionally cheating” on him… ridiculous as it sounds…
Yup, it will never be the same again… I broke up with my boyfriend after 2 years, and we had a break for 6 months… I’ve met someone else during those 6 months, but it didn’t really work out (we didn’t really date, but just got to know each other better)… But anyway, it didn’t quite fit right, so I kinda got back together with my ex after a while… And while in that relationship, he kept bringing up old things that happened when we were in that break.
love your definition of love.
couldn’t agree more with this statement about love and advice ;o)
problem on the other side is that most people dont know anymore what love is…
Shouldnt have cheated bitch! Assuming that is what you did
@juanpablofx Correction: Girls are complicated. Guys HAVE dicks. The End.
Love is not a feeling
If you cheat. Fuck you, I’m moving on & finding better. & I won’t forgive you, I hope you suffer in regret. You have a fuckin brain, you shouldn’t have done what you did.
If the situation involved cheating that relationship is over. It is nearly impossible to ever forgive a person for that. I believe if you actually can cheat once you will do it again and I have experienced it more than once. I think the people who are unfaithful need to reevaluate how they feel because if you are capable of cheating you obviously aren’t happy with what you have or you wouldn’t do it in the first place.
Trusting someone can take seconds, but building that trust back up once it’s been broken, can take a lifetime!!!